Anal sex can be incredibly hot (and not incredibly painful) when done correctly. Remember these three rules: Go slow, start small, and use lots of lube (preferably silicone-based, which lasts longer).
To start, bend over the side of your bed or dresser and have your guy touch and kiss you all over. If your nerves have gotten the best of you, take a break or stop. You aren’t ready yet, and that’s okay.
When you are ready for anal pleasure, break out the lube. He should rub it around your anal opening and insert a lubricated finger into your anus. After pushing it in and out for about 60 seconds (or until you feel comfortable), your guy should insert a second lubricated finger in for an additional 60 seconds. A small anal toy (covered in lube) would also work. It’s best if your first handful of anal sex experiences is with fingers or small anal toys only.
After rubbing lubrication onto his entire penis, your beau ought to enter slowly, working up to thrusting (but not too hard). Face-to-face anal sex is also a possibility. When his penis has entered your anus over the side of the bed, slowly move onto your back. Enjoy the ride, ladies!
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