ASK REAL GUYS
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: How do I ask my husband to go down on me? Do men really enjoy doing that? It takes a long time for me to reach orgasm, so should I feel guilty if he is down there a long time?
Avery: Every man’s sexual preferences are different. Hopefully your sexual relationship is one where each of you seeks to please the other. One suggestion is that you should make sure that your grooming is appealing to him. Also, you could suggest trying to please each other at the same time. That may help get things started without having to discuss it directly.