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A no-strings relationship
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: have known this guy about a year now and we finally took it to the next level and decided to just have adult fun. Well after we did meet that night we had made plans in the future for more meetings. The next day I tried to call him and make sure he was OK about the situation, but he never called me back. I know I’m pretty naïve, but I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. I guess I just want to know why guys would make plans with a woman to have a no-strings-attached relationship not call you back.
Avery: If you guys had “deal” to have adult fun and keep it simple, then the guy should be calling you back. If he doesn’t (and he used to call back before), he’s sending you a message that he doesn’t want ANY kind of relationship anymore. If that’s the case, then he wasn’t being honest with you when he said that he could have some adult fun and then treat it as “no big deal.” Obviously to him, it WAS a big deal. Try calling or e-mailing him once more, then just move on.