Anal Stimulation

ASK REAL GUYS Anal Stimulation Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I would like to try sticking my finger in my boyfriend’s bum but have never done it – to any man – and am afraid to try. In not so many words he has said that he wouldn’t mind, but I’m afraid of messing it up. [...]

August 20, 2008Love+LifeSteven Gaffney

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Anal Stimulation

Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I would like to try sticking my finger in my boyfriend’s bum but have never done it – to any man – and am afraid to try. In not so many words he has said that he wouldn’t mind, but I’m afraid of messing it up. What should I do?

Steven: People have all kinds of likes and dislikes and this sounds like a very intimate and private matter. My suggestion is to talk and handle this question directly with him.