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Why is He Such a Slob?

Dear ASK REAL GUYS: My husband doesn't care about his appearance at all. I mean, his hair is always a mess, and he is always in sweats. Even when we go to my parents' house for holidays, he looks like a mess. I've tried yelling, sweet-talking, anything, and he doesn't care. He is a good-looking guy. I always have my hair neat and perfume on. Is this a sign that he is not in love?

Steven: No, it just means he doesn't care how he dresses and is probably comfortable in your relationship. You could make a request that he look presentable in certain situations and share with him that, though it doesn't matter to him, it matters to you. Remind him that you are conscious of how you look and that you want him to be attracted to you.