Woman to Women

Rekindling Old Friendships

Take a chance, you may be surprised!

-Cate Thompson

Just about everyone has been a victim of those irritating pop-ups on the computer that tempt you to seek out old classmates. They did start me thinking, however, about a dear friend I had in high school. We met in 10th grade and connected immediately. To look at us, you would never suspect that we had anything in common. I was a petite kid with straight dirty-blond hair and blue eyes. She was a heavyset girl, Italian, with thick, curly dark hair and large brown eyes. We were complete opposites, and not just in looks.

Friends have come and gone, but I can honestly say looking back that she was the most caring, honest and true friend I had throughout my school years. Unfortunately, youth is foolish and impulsive. When I found myself in a position where I thought I had to choose between her and the guy, I chose the boyfriend. A few years later, thankfully, I eliminated him from the picture as well. When neither of them were a part of my life, I somehow felt that the situation was finally justified. read more about rekindling old friendships...