10 Ways to Get Him in the Mood

Sexy little moves that are guaranteed to get him revved up and ready to go.
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Couple taking a bath

When you first met, he couldn’t take his hands off you. But lately, he’s been a little distant in the boudoir. Or maybe you’re feeling frisky and he simply seems distracted. What to do?

Let’s face it. Getting a man in the mood isn’t usually a serious challenge. By their own admission, most guys are more than happy to engage in acts of intimacy at the drop of a dime. But we all – men and women, alike – have those days when we could use a little help in the romance department. And, besides, most guys are seriously turned on when their partner takes the lead.

Below, are my well-researched, highly effective intimacy tips. They incorporate all of the senses and are guaranteed to put the zing back into your sex life. And at the very least, you’ll have a lot of fun trying them out together! (OK, I tried some of these out on my boyfriend and they worked, so I thought I’d share.)

1. Bubble, bubble, no toil or trouble.
Prepare a candlelit, vanilla-scented, bubble bath. According to neurologist Alan Hirsch, of the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago, vanilla is the aroma that arouses men most. Add a few more key ingredients to your sensual bath potion, such as you waiting for him in the tub with two glasses of wine, and voila! Let the games begin.

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2. See me, feel me, touch me.
Give your guy a sensual massage, and incorporate some items with diverse textures, such as a silk scarf, a feather. or a scratchy wool sweater. Be creative, but be sure to choose things that will feel different on his skin. Light a scented cinnamon candle (cinnamon is a known aphrodisiac for men), and choose a massage oil with aphrodisiac properties, such as lavender or frankincense. And don’t forget the blindfold – for him.

3. Let me whisper in your ear.
In your sexiest voice, leave a message on his voice mail about what it is that draws you to him and why you can’t wait to see him later – the breathier the better.

4. Look into my eyes.
Staring contests are a childhood staple, but this is one kids’ game worth revisiting as adults. Staring directly into the eyes of your lover without breaking your gaze can be a powerful tool for arousal, and it can also enhance intimacy during lovemaking.


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10 thoughts on “10 Ways to Get Him in the Mood

  1. jessica03 says:

    Of these tips are great. I love the massage one the best and whisper in the ears!

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  2. tripspike says:

    Over the past 5 years, I’ve discovered the general rules for my man:
    1. Don’t be covered in cow manure.

    I can’t think of anything for 2.

    If all else fails I just take my pants off. This has proven effective 100% of the time.

  3. lpfns says:

    send flowers? read poetry? make him a sandwich? Not only do I not want to do these things, I don’t think it’s going to give him an erection either.

    But number 9 is brilliant.

  4. Pie94 says:

    haha these are ok…i find to get my guy in the mood is to play real hard to get…just when he thinks hes gonna get something there is a no way you have to do something for me first :)

  5. aliceglass says:

    No need to spend a dime, easiest way to get a guy in the mood, is to unzip his pants and just start…. anything….
    works 100% of the time for me, I’ve gotten him out of a bad mood, finished a fight, and woken him from a nap that way and every time he’s thanked me over and over.

  6. yawa1243 says:

    I love # 4. My man loves my eyes so I play up on them.

  7. marie85 says:

    Im with alot of the other ladies… I think those things could do something for me , but little needs to be done to get my man in the mood. #9 is one that Im sure he would love. The others Im thinking he wouldnt mind if we did them or not. I feel like these things should be told to the man to do for the women. Just my opinion. Id love to hear from some men on this topic.

  8. BeenThereDoneThat says:

    one thing i have noticed that always gets a reaction is dancing. every time we’re working around the house or even just swimming in the pool out back, we have music playing and every time i start dancing or humming or moving with the beat at all, i usually end up with his warm arms wrapped around me telling me how distracting i am being.

    another thing of course is playing with his hair. we’ll be watching a movie or just bumming it out somewhere and I’ll start running my fingers through his hair. only a couple minutes of that and I’ll be attacked with kisses.

    not saying these will work for everyone, but they work for me :)

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