10 Ways to Get Him in the Mood

Sexy little moves that are guaranteed to get him revved up and ready to go.
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5. I want to sing you a love song.

Make a CD of his fave tunes or a compilation of love songs that have some special meaning to the two of you. Leave it on his car seat for him to find in the morning on his way to work, and he’ll think about you all day. (Note: Beyonce wannabes can up the ante by recording one with their own voice on the lead vocals.)

6. Say it with poetry.
Write a poem about the first time you met and read it to him before bed. It can be traditional or naughty. Ladies’ choice.

7. The gateway to his heart.
Prepare his favorite brown-bag lunch, with a little something extra tucked inside: A deliciously raunchy note from you, informing him of what you intend to do when you see him. (Keep your fingers crossed that this isn’t the day he chooses to share his lunch with his boss or co-worker.)

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8. Where have all the flowers gone?
Send him a bouquet. While most guys probably won’t readily admit it, there are very few who wouldn’t enjoy receiving flowers from someone they care about. In fact, a recent Rutgers University study showed that men who receive flowers demonstrate increased social interaction and happiness. Choose his favorite colors (or scents, if he’s into that kind of thing), or pick a sensual palette of reds, blues and purples. And don’t forget to enclose a sweet, sexy note.

9. The gift that keeps on giving.
Buy him a gift certificate from Victoria’s Secret and let him choose what lingerie you will be donning during your next intimate time together. Offer to go with him to model the options, or let him surprise you.

10. Chocolate, chocolate, my kingdom for a chocolate.
While the female love affair with chocolate is well-documented, according to a recent study, men who consumed it also felt less lonely and depressed. Combine this news with chocolate’s known aphrodisiac properties for both sexes and you have a winning combo when it comes to revving up the mood for amore.

Your assignment: Prepare a sensual chocolate fondue using popular dipping choices like pound cake, donut holes, graham crackers, pretzels, rice crispy treats, marshmallows and fruits such as strawberries, raspberries, cherries, bananas or apples. Feeding each other is required. No utensils allowed.

Traditional Chocolate Fondue Recipe
(Recipe courtesy of: Gone-ta-pott.com)

8 oz Premium Chocolate (chopped)
1 cup Whipping Cream
2 tsp Grand Marnier (optional)

Over low flame, heat cream until warm. (Do not boil!) Slowly add chocolate while stirring. As mixture becomes smooth, stir in liqueur, and serve, keeping warm.

Tell Us: How do you get your guy in the mood for love?

Jill Rachel Jacobs is a New York-based writer and humorist.


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10 thoughts on “10 Ways to Get Him in the Mood

  1. jessica03 says:

    Of these tips are great. I love the massage one the best and whisper in the ears!

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  2. tripspike says:

    Over the past 5 years, I’ve discovered the general rules for my man:
    1. Don’t be covered in cow manure.

    I can’t think of anything for 2.

    If all else fails I just take my pants off. This has proven effective 100% of the time.

  3. lpfns says:

    send flowers? read poetry? make him a sandwich? Not only do I not want to do these things, I don’t think it’s going to give him an erection either.

    But number 9 is brilliant.

  4. Pie94 says:

    haha these are ok…i find to get my guy in the mood is to play real hard to get…just when he thinks hes gonna get something there is a no way you have to do something for me first :)

  5. aliceglass says:

    No need to spend a dime, easiest way to get a guy in the mood, is to unzip his pants and just start…. anything….
    works 100% of the time for me, I’ve gotten him out of a bad mood, finished a fight, and woken him from a nap that way and every time he’s thanked me over and over.

  6. yawa1243 says:

    I love # 4. My man loves my eyes so I play up on them.

  7. marie85 says:

    Im with alot of the other ladies… I think those things could do something for me , but little needs to be done to get my man in the mood. #9 is one that Im sure he would love. The others Im thinking he wouldnt mind if we did them or not. I feel like these things should be told to the man to do for the women. Just my opinion. Id love to hear from some men on this topic.

  8. BeenThereDoneThat says:

    one thing i have noticed that always gets a reaction is dancing. every time we’re working around the house or even just swimming in the pool out back, we have music playing and every time i start dancing or humming or moving with the beat at all, i usually end up with his warm arms wrapped around me telling me how distracting i am being.

    another thing of course is playing with his hair. we’ll be watching a movie or just bumming it out somewhere and I’ll start running my fingers through his hair. only a couple minutes of that and I’ll be attacked with kisses.

    not saying these will work for everyone, but they work for me :)

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