15 Weird Things Guys Do That Turn Us Off

C'mon guys, you think that will land you a second date? If it's something on this list that we find weird, annoying, and gross, then the answer is "No!"
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8. P.D.A.  Think back to the very first thing you learned in kindergarten: keep your hands to yourself! Of course, behind closed doors is a completely different story, but a girl doesn’t want a guy’s hand on her ass while she stands on line at the movies. Most of us gals daydream about being swept off our feet by Prince Charming, but a sloppy make-out session on the corner of a busy street is not what we had in mind. It’s awkward for all parties involved – including the old lady stuck behind us watching.

9. Acting “Too cool for school.” When a guy writes “I don’t read” under his Favorite Books section on Facebook, it doesn’t make us think he’s funny or cool. It makes him sound stupid, and girls like intelligent guys. We’d much rather hear about the film festival he went to last week, not about how he ran from the cops two years ago.

10. Cursing. Our virgin ears! Guys, save the four letter words for when you’re ready to say “love”— and save the f-bombs for the frat house.

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11. Bad hygiene. We stuff our feet in stilettos and put on makeup to go out with them. The least guys can do is clean themselves up! (And no, dousing yourself with a bottle of Aqua de Gio is not considered showering.) Kissing us with onion breath is just not sexy, and neither is drawing blood with your long, jagged toenails while we hook up.

12. Driving with the seat reclined really far back. Cruising down the highway and naptime are definitely not the same thing – while he’s trying to look all macho and cool, we’re trying to figure out how he can see over the steering wheel.

13. Video games. We’re still in the dark over why guys derive so much pleasure from gluing their eyes to a TV screen and blowing up virtual villains with a controller. And why do they invite us over if they’re just going to ignore us and play Grand Theft Auto all night? We’d rather stay home and watch Gossip Girl.

14. Going too over-the-top. Hey, we’re all for creative first dates, but when a guy gets a bit too exotic with his restaurant choice or date idea the first time around, it makes it seem like he’s trying too hard. It’s not like we’ll dig him more if he takes us out for quail—chicken parm is just fine.

15. Grunting at the gym. It’s second nature for us gals to look over at a sexy guy, especially one with rippling biceps doing sets with heavy barbells at the gym. But seriously, what’s with the unnecessary grunting?! If we wanted to hear strange gorilla-like noises, we’d go to the zoo… or the Jersey Shore.

Tell us: What else do guys do that turns you off?

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19 thoughts on “15 Weird Things Guys Do That Turn Us Off

  1. I hate it when girls do many of these things. Don’t think it’s just a girl thing. I hate it when my wife spends hours playing video games, I rarely play them but she loves them. My wife loves to tickle me and out adult kids we all hate it, she thinks it’s funny, PDA? I’m the conservative one, she has no problems having her hands in private places although she hates it if I do it back and that generally stops it. And it’s my wife who does too much texting, I rarely do it, she pulls in around 300 a month, I do about 25.

    And yes I do all the cooking and she likes to watch football on TV where I only like it if we go to a live game. I suppose we switch stereotypes in many other areas as well, thats what makes us a good couple, if not a little confusing to others.

  2. Hey Betty, It's nice to finally meet someone who's never accidently cut a fart. You must me the size of a zepplin by now. If a guy does it and says excuse me or my bad, you don't call him on it. Also sensual tickling is alot of fun when it's done right. You ought to try it!

  3. One thing that I hate is too much cologne. I actually prefer guys without any at all. After all, what if I don’t like it? If you have to wear some, go really easy. A big part of attraction is that you like the way the other person smells naturally. If you can’t tell, how will you know?

    Another thing is road rage, or any kind of anger management issues. If you have those… Go away

  4. For the record, I do not grunt when I work out personally. That being said when you yell, grunt or exhale forcefully it allows you to lift more weight and not all guys at the gym are there just to be your eye candy and turn you on. Sorry…

  5. No offense, but this is a really stupid list. I'm a 30 year old woman and I absolutely love being tickled. In fact, a guy wrestling with me, pinning me down, tickling me silly…all of those playful things are some of my BIGGEST turn ons. Guys, don't listen to this nonsense. Some of us love that!

  6. My whole life i ve never had a stable relationship all men come get want they and go.As a matter of fact i saw myself as tool for all men.I don’t no its like i was just not loveable no matter how i give my all to them they end up living me with nothing but a broken heart.All these bad relationship i had experienced led to a psychological breake down thank my star that i got through that.Finding a man was never hard for me they just all wanted sex with me and once they get it, they all live but for the first time i found one that was willing to stay.I had never felt whole in my entire life but with him i kept floating in the sky.Yes he was married and unhappy he only married his wife cos they had a child together.One thing was for sure, as he made me whole i also did to him.We where in love as much as i cud tell he was willing to divorce his wife to be with me but she wudn’t let go like she owned his life and wanted him to me miserable 4 life.I don’t no but something made her too dangerous for him to get out of the marriage.For the first time in my life i found a man that was not willing to go anyway he was willing to fight for our love ven if it kills him.2 year passed and she wouldn’t let go so i just felt i should do something about it.I seeked advice and help if they could i even checked the internet for solution which ended up being a waste of time.However, i saw articles or rather comments of a lot of persons who used spell casting to fix their relationship and some it get those who they loved to see how much they loved them.And they all kept referring to a particular spell caster mutton osun.At first i just ignored it but my lover came across those article also.After we talked about it we decided to contact him and asked if he cud in any way help us.He just and only asked us to provide some really weird materials that just thinking if it made me scared not like they were harmful its just that i was not used to this things.We ie me and my lover decided that we sould asked him to get them with what we sent to him ie, money.We asked him to cast a spell to make ,y lover wife set him free and he did as we asked and it walked i know cos 12 hours before he said he has completed the spell, she was still very much not going to sign any divorce paper but after the spell was completed all we did was give her the paper and without a fight he signed it.I know its hard to belief only the people close to us know how true this is.lets just say you want to contact use this email address godsofosunx@rockemail.com

  7. All you bitches do the same thing, don't act like your perfect. When you act all weird and crazy guys don't go talking about it, making a big deal about it, constantly thinking about it, or posting that shit on the internet. You whores need to get fixed, no wonder everybody in the world hates American woman, you guys are a disease, a virus, A SCOURGE to this planet. Everybody hates you, good riddance.

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