5 Biggest First-Time Sex Mistakes

Follow these tips to have fun and ensure that your first time together won't be your last!
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4. Overstaying your welcome. The first time you have sex with a guy, it will likely bring up a variety of emotions for both of you. Though it might be your initial instinct, don’t deal with those emotions by being overly clingy (just like you wouldn’t want a guy to be too clingy with you). If you’re at his house, spend some time hanging out with him in the morning, but don’t stick around all afternoon, especially if it looks like he’s trying to get on with his day and do other things. After you’ve gotten out of bed and maybe had some breakfast, tell him you have to take off, but that last night was a lot of fun. Leaving of your own accord shows that you have other priorities in your life aside from him, and that those priorities haven’t changed just because you’ve slept together.


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21 thoughts on “5 Biggest First-Time Sex Mistakes

  1. Fern says:

    This great advice, especially #3 about staying confident the next morning. But I can’t agree with #5. It’s one thing not to call after a date, but if you’ve spend the night together he ABSOLUTELY MUST call you the next day if he has any manners whatsoever.

  2. prettygirl945 says:

    #6 is the worst

  3. kitty says:

    Um … interested to know what your #6 is, prettygirl945! Seeing as how there are only 5 tips here ….

  4. lovesbetty says:

    Doing it unprotected is more than a first time mistake… never do it unprotected.

  5. Fashionista says:

    Sleeping with a D-bag is #6, Kitty. It says it right in the article.

  6. OldWrangler says:

    Number 3 and 4 are dead on. Get up the next morning, confidentially say “Good-bye” and get the F*#& out. I will call if I want to bang you again!!!

  7. AMZ7 says:

    My sentiments exactly Old Pimp–oh excuse me, I mean Old Wrangler. Who wants a serious relationship!!! They’re boring and too suffocating.

  8. KittyK says:

    W.O.W.!!! OldWrangler and AMZ7: How old are you two??? If that’s your reaction to a first time experience, it may well be your LAST!! I can’t speak for the males, but *I* sure as blazes wouldn’t give a jerk-off reaction like YOURS the time of day again! A first time is supposed to be beautiful… NOT DISGUSTING!!!!!

  9. ROSHANDA says:

    I totally and absolutely agree with lovesbetty; never go unprotected because it just irresponsible and if he doesn’t call the next day, next two weeks, or ever again for that matter you may have something to remember him by, for a long time or forever and ever amen……

  10. holle says:

    thanks for the good advice

  11. esolkneerod says:

    Wow, when did having sex with someone for the first time require 5 “tips” instead of honest emotion? Really, if your relationship hasn’t made it to the no games stage by the time you 2 decide to have sex, why bother?

  12. No Maam says:

    A smart woman knows that when a wakes up in the morning he doesn’t want to see you still in bed with him.

    Remember, ladies: A man doesn’t pay a prostitute for sex; he pays her to leave.

  13. Rick Smith says:

    As long as you are doing safe there will be no problem. The only problem is doing it for the first time without the protection you need.

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