5 Steps To A "Porn Star Sex Life"

Penthouse Pet Ryan Keely gives tips on how to do it like a pro.
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“Women need to understand that just her bringing it up is a huge turn-on for most men,” says Ryan. “Men think about sex all the time, they come to my seminars to try to learn what women want, so they’re thrilled to discuss it.”

Do keep in mind that timing is everything, so don’t spring it on him after a long day at work. And reassuring your man first is always a good idea; don’t make it sound like there’s something missing.

“Be supportive and friendly,” she says. “Something like, ‘Our sex life is really great and there’s something I’ve been thinking about that might be fun.’”

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5. Get comfortable in the buff
“I recommend that every woman spend some time naked,” says Ryan. “Even if it’s just laying in your own bed watching TV fully nude. It’s a really freeing experience.” And of course, naked with a partner is even better.

“Your partner will find it incredibly erotic that you’re comfortable with your body,” she says. “A lot of times we wear clothes to cover what we feel are imperfections, but the truth is your guy isn’t seeing those dimples on your butt, he’s just excited to see your butt.”

One thing Ryan says not to try? Recording your bedroom activities.

“Do NOT make a sex tape,” she says, “It’s a terrible, terrible choice.”

You won’t have the editing, lighting, and cameraman that the professionals do, so it probably won’t look all that great. And even if it doesn’t accidentally end up on the Internet, these things have a way of getting switched with the kids Disney videos at the worst possible times.

Okay Ryan, we’ll leave that to the pros!

Shari Goldhagen is the author of Family and Other Accidents


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0 thoughts on “5 Steps To A "Porn Star Sex Life"

  1. booksorclothes says:

    can I just have a sex life please?

  2. candace2010 says:

    my boyfriend doesnt like handjobs

  3. Fashionista says:

    I’d be nervous to try the reach around!

  4. jillmarie13 says:

    Great tips. I actually have done the first tip many times- it’s sexy to watch your man pleasure himself! Tip #4 is something I want to do anyway at some point- then destroy the evidence after viewing, of course!

  5. uptowngirl says:

    Great tips for spicing things up!

  6. weetziebat says:

    I hate the word “sphincter.” Good tips, though.

  7. lovesbetty says:

    I think its so important to ask for what you want in the sack. I always do and this leads to a porper climax. DOn’t be shy!

  8. CityLady212 says:

    i clearly need to spice up my love life– these tips prove it.

  9. Addie says:

    This is new?!?! I am no way a porn star and I already knew these…how about some thing good?

  10. KittyK says:

    Excellent advice! Sadly, many women are NOT aware of these lil tidbits… I USED TO BE one! They really do work ladies, so those of you who already know, let’s be patient with those who are just learning ;)

  11. Rody0 says:

    I am a male with a difficult medical problem. I am not over the hill yet but have not had sex in four years due to prostate cancer, and it’s removal. The only way I can get an erection is by giving myself a shot, or my partner if I had one.
    My Urologist (female) said if I come in she will show me where and how to do the “Shot”.

    They also have another method that you insert into the end of the penis and get an erection that last for four hours, same as the shot. The cost for the insert is a package of 6 for $1200.00. I do not know what the shots cost. There are about four friends that know what I am going through.
    I try not to think about sex, nor a relationship.Maybe if I could find someone that really hated penatration, maybe that would work. I am satisfied with playing around, and cuddling. I know that there is another act that all my past girl friends loved except for this one friend. The next one I go out with I will not tell her what I can’t do, but can we do something else.
    Sould I say something before the date, or wait. What do you ladies think? I haven’t
    made up my mind about the “shot”; maybe I would get excited if my partner gave it to me. Going nuts in Alabama…

  12. tooshie says:

    oh please this is nonsense. sex in this way is just over rated nonsense. how much hedonism can one take.

  13. pickle says:

    interesting article.

  14. matzsmith says:

    I wish you could get an article in without having to go to another page, and another, and another……

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