5 Ways To Blow His Mind In Bed

He'll be the one who wants extra snuggle time after you try some of these moves.
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5 Ways To Blow His Mind In Bed

He’ll be the one who wants extra snuggle time after you try some of these moves.

-Amber Madison

Blow His Mind In Bed

Have a new guy?  Need to spice things up with an old one?  Want to bust out something extra special for his birthday? Or maybe you just feel like going the extra mile tonight?  Whatever your reason for wanting to treat your man, here are five ways to blow his mind in the bedroom.

1. Talk dirty.
They say that a man’s most erogenous zone is his brain. This means, it really is more important for you to blow his mind than blow his…well, you know. The quickest way to bring him into the moment and add passion to your sex life is to start talking dirty. Don’t know what to say? Just start by talking about what you want to do to him, what you are doing to him, what you love doing to him, how good it feels or what you want him to do to you.

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2. Play With “The Boys.” Few girls will tell you that balls are their favorite part of a guy’s body. But like them or not, the majority of guys find it pleasurable to have them played with. Whether you’re going down on him, on top of him, or underneath him, go through the trouble of reaching your arm around to play with the boys. He will be VERY appreciative.

3. Hop on Reverse Cow Girl.  Nothing spices it up like trying a new position.  A popular one that many guys call “the hottest thing ever” is reverse cowgirl. Reverse cowgirl means that you’re on top, but flipped around. So you’re straddling him on your knees, but facing his feet instead of his face. A little side note: He’s going to have a full on view of your bootie, so if you’re a groomer, you probably want to be pretty well groomed. This position is very revealing. (Which is part of why it’s so hot!)


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20 thoughts on “5 Ways To Blow His Mind In Bed

  1. girleegirl says:

    Easy! Done and done!

  2. uptowngirl says:

    Great tips!

  3. Fashionista says:

    These definitely all work!

  4. CityLady212 says:

    I’m terrible with the teasing because I can’t hold out myself.

  5. WikkidLilGrrrl says:

    when i was with my now ex..i would rub my breasts on his chest…and reverse cowgirl drove him up the celining lol…and when I was on top, i’d throw my head back..he loved all these things.

  6. jessica03 says:

    these are all great tips!!!!!!

  7. Fern says:

    great solid tips!

  8. cremebrulee67 says:

    K – first off, not all men like you fooling with their balls – case in point – my husband. I don’t know if someone hurt him there or traumatized him or what, but he totally clenches up if i go for them; and second, i have done the waking him up with BJ, sometimes they are sleeping hard and have a negative weird reaction which can totally diffuse your self-confidence and kinda hurt your feelings. Rouse him up some first before going for it — just some advice from an old gal – the rest are all great ideas

  9. holle says:

    yes there is not sweet like morning bj

  10. holle says:

    yes there is not sweet like morning bj

  11. holle says:

    yes there is not sweet like morning bj

  12. holle says:

    yes there is not sweet like morning bj

  13. holle says:

    yes there is not sweet like morning bj

  14. marriagecoach1 says:

    Speaking as a man, here are some extra tips. Ride him on top facing him and bend over with every stroke, stroke just your nipples against his chest.

    When playing with his balls, it is important to remember very light stroking. Better yet, get your silkiest panties and srtoke them UNDER his balls lightly and quickly or with a quick motion. It feels like heaven especially when you have his member in your mouth. Every guys loves to hear you talk dirty, the raunchier the better. Use all of your 4 letter words, embrace your inner slut, believe me, he will respect you in the morning. You will fill his love bank

  15. jessica03 says:

    thanks marriagecoach1. great tips!!!

  16. tweetybee says:

    wOO HONEY!!!IVE DONE LOTS AND IF YOU HAD A SPY CAMERA WHILE WE WERE GETTING IT ON YOUD KNOW HOW HE TAKES IT!!!!

  17. 4shizzle says:

    Total bullseye. But, remember if you “look like” you’ve had enough or got better things to do when performing at least hang in there for 5 minutes and not just 30 seconds. It’s hard for us to enjoy the pleasure when your look’n like times-up-gotta go.

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  20. Tallmingle says:

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