4. Mr. Bossy McBoss Pants. When a guy you’re dating brainstorms a great idea for your career – that’s awesome. When a guy you’re dating brainstorms exactly what you should wear, who you should be friends with and how many inches the wine box must be from the O.J. in the fridge – that’s controlling. Be your own boss and save the Ike Turners-in-training for someone else.