8 Sex Moves Guys Hate

Nookie no-nos to avoid in the sack.
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Sex Moves Guys Hate5. Assploration. Yes, many guys find it pleasurable to have their bums fondled. Many guys will also flip out  if you go anywhere near their back door. Unless he’s told you he likes it, stay away from that area. If you want to fondle something, reach for his balls instead. They are a much safer bet.

6. The Lean Back. Erections bend forward. This means: don’t ride him the same way you would ride a bull. Lean forward or straight up, don’t lean all the way back. Quite simply, guys’ equipment doesn’t bend that way.

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7. The Red Eye. Most guys will agree that reverse cowgirl is a hot position. That being said, it’s the safest to stay upright in this position. If you lean forward and grab his ankles not only are you risking bending him the wrong way, you’re giving him an unsolicited view of your bum-hole. Booties are hot, the actual hole…. the verdict is still out for many guys.

8. The Water Slide. From time to time, lubrication is necessary.  There are many things that make good lubricants: KY Jelly, lotion, saliva, even conditioner if you’re giving a hand job in the shower.  One thing that doesn’t make a good lubricant: water. Water actually just adds to the chafing. If you are giving a hand job and need some extra lubricant, reach for the lotion, not the faucet.

BettyConfidential’s Sexpert Amber Madison is a sex educator and author of Hooking Up: A Girl’s All-Out Guide to Sex and Sexuality, and Talking Sex With Your Kids, which was released in March.

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31 thoughts on “8 Sex Moves Guys Hate

  1. Yea guys can tell when a girl is faking her moans to stretch their egos! But truly never had a problem with my expressional outbursts in this since of talk.

  2. Some guys dont like viewing their girl’s asshole? Hilarious. Where did you come up with that? Pretty unavoidable doing doggy style? Anytime spent looking at porn would show the ridiculousness of that claim. Maybe true for old fashioned men who dont like oral sex and want to do “it” in the dark.

  3. actually as a nurse I can tell you the penis is not a muscle it works on blood flow..the reason old guys have trouble getting it up…when they take blood pressure meds it lower the blood pressure…everywhere. But it can be broken, if you bend it the wrong way and damage the blood vessels in it, your poor guy can have some problems.

  4. I wondered about the “Red eye” also. Every guy sees it doggy? I had a BF who always wanted to take a shower together and wash each other. I hate to say I miss it, but I do because he loved to go doggy, me with a working myself while he licked around my red-eye! OMG

  5. Must say, view of the bum hole is unavoidable when doing it doggy style, and the author must not have asked any man, because I can’t think of a single one of us who isn’t tantalized by that sight. Also, the penis is NOT a muscle. Learn some basic anatomy if you’re going to hold yourself out there as some kind of expert.

  6. Actually the starfish is ok if your playing bondage games, or self control games. My ball and chain likes to play the bet I can get you to move out of control game..it’s fun…

  7. #8 is so right on! Who on earth uses water for lubricant? All those people claiming hot sex in pools, hot tubs, lakes, rivers, and streams are lying! After initial lubrication is gone, so is the fun! My boyfriend and I had to take it to dry ground!

  8. Hi, Amber Madison.
    This is a good article with good advice for women and some points that men might benefit from remembering too. However, there is one GLARING mistake in point 3. The penis is NOT a muscle. It is actually 3 chambers of erectile tissue that fill with blood during sexual arousal to create an erection.

    Yes, clenching and un-clenching the sphincter muscles can cause the penis to twitch and jerk by applying pressure to the engorged erectile tissues. BUT, this does not mean that the penis itself is a muscle.

    Because the penis DOES have these chambers of erectile tissue is the reason that bending it the wrong way can cause pain or actual physical injury. The blood-filled erectile tissue is supposed to hold the penis erect and STRAIGHT and it would be self-defeating if it could bend freely, would it not?

    Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

    You have a wonderful day.
    Best wishes.

  9. A woman CLEARLY wrote this. Too bad she doesnt know a damn thing about sex, OR men. What a dipshit. Sorry, but the sex articles need to be written by women who aren’t afraid of sex, their own bodies, or a little kink, and who have had sex with normal non-prudish men.

  10. Some men do not like their brown eye messed with and they let you know. So give it a try but be gentle till you get approval. My man loves to give me oral sex and is obsessed with it- I like it but give me a break!!

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