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Dear ASK REAL GUYS: My boyfriend has trouble getting an erection at random times, and it ends up ruining the rest of our night. He feels bad because he can’t get hard, which makes him worry that he can’t make me happy. I feel that it is my fault, but I am not an ugly girl so I am very confused.
Avery: If your boyfriend has performance problems, but is sure that he is attracted to you, he may have a medical problem that should be discussed with a medical doctor. If the “random” times that he has performance issues are at times that are similar (lack of sleep, high consumption of alcohol, etc.), these may be scenarios that you want to look closer at.