What Would Debbie Do?
He’s into My Friend
There’s this guy I like but unfortunately he’s interested in my friend. I approached him once, and afterwards he told my friend that he would never have romantic feelings for me. What do you think I should do to make him see me differently? I haven’t been receiving any male attention lately. Any ideas?
–Thank you, Lonely
If this guy likes your friend, and you know it, why are you approaching him? Don’t you find it the least bit offensive to try and circumvent his attention from your friend, to you? And even after he has stated he only sees you as a “friend” you’re still asking for advice on how to get him to notice you? I’m speechless.
I suggest you take a good look at yourself, and ask yourself why 1) you’d betray a friend and 2) you’d want to engage someone who clearly is not interested in you. That’s what I would do.