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He’s Talking to His Ex
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and although I love him he is definitely a lot of work sometimes with his moodiness and temper tantrums. He is six years older than me and thinks that I am the person he wants to be with for the rest of his life, or so he says. Anyway he moved to Wyoming recently and wants me to move up there. I am attending college 18 hours away and I am not ready to make the commitment to move across the country for a man.
He bought me a plane ticket and I just spent two weeks with him, but a week after I returned home I found out he had hinted to his ex-girlfriend that she should go visit him. What’s the deal?? I believe he loves me, maybe not the way I want if he’s inviting his ex to visit. Why the heck would he do that?
Matt: If it is true that he invited his ex out to visit him, then he’s probably not that serious about you or thinks you’re not going to move out to be with him and is giving himself options. It sounds like you’ve made the right decision not to move out there to be with him yet. If he’s serious about you, he will continue to fund your trips to visit him.