Is it a Booty Call or Is He Really Into You?

Real guys come clean about how to know which category you're in.
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Is it a Booty Call or Is He Really
Into You?

Real guys come clean about how to know which category you’re in.

-Justin DeMarco

Is it a Booty Call or Does He Really Like You?

When a guy adores a girl, it’s obvious. He’ll make a painting, write a love song, buy a celebratory cigar, walk tall with his chest out, smile and laugh all day long just because. Heck, he may even do a happy dance in the heart of Times Square – in front of the guy wearing a Batman costume and the tourists with cameras around their necks – just to share his moment of elation with the world.

On the other hand, when a guy meets a girl and starts thinking, “She’s sort of cute, but not reallybut maybe if she wears her hair this waywait no, not that way, maybe the other way was better…” well, chances are he’s not that interested. He’s working too hard to find a reason to like her and he’ll probably end up avoiding her altogether or will only show interest if he has no other available options.

TJ, a 47-year-old journeyman from New York, has had his share of relationships, both long-term and what we’ll call “instant classics.” “For some reason when you’re young, there are women you date who you put on a pedestal and you think they’re the marrying type,” the former insurance salesman says.

To use an example from popular culture, think Jennifer Aniston. To the average observer, she’s marriage material. She’s a good-looking, girl-next-door type who is independent and smart. Obviously, most guys wouldn’t mind having a one-night-stand with her, but you can’t just hit it and quit it with one of America’s sweethearts and get away unscathed. Ask John Mayer.

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“Then there are women you date who you have no respect for,”  TJ continues. “They’d be the last ones you’d want to settle down and have kids with – but you don’t mind spending 40 minutes or so with them.”

Example? Let’s say Jessica Simpson: Hot by today’s standards (when she’s not wearing mom jeans), but as dumb as “the chicken of the sea.” She sounds like she’d be fun in the bedroom, but a disaster outside of it. Ask John Mayer.


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