ASK REAL GUYS
Coming Face to Face
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: When you’re meeting for the first time after a few e-mails and a phone call (normal for online dating), what do you notice about her in the first 15 seconds of the meeting? The first 30 seconds of the meeting? Please be specific. I’m talking behavior, conversation, eye contact, anything.Thanks so much!
Avery: What people notice in the first 15 seconds is whether the person is smiling and has a nice look about him or her, how is the person dressed, how did he or she greet the other person, and how does he or she REALLY look in real life as opposed to the picture(s) online. This may happen in the first 10 seconds, actually!