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Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I am wondering if a man who I have been chatting with for eight months now is still interested in me. He was in Florida over Thanksgiving visiting his sisters, and he left the following Saturday and said he would be back the next Friday. Not long afterwards I got an offline message from him saying he loved me; how do I know if it’s for real? I love him, he is my best friend, but he hasn’t called in a while. What do you think is going on?
Avery: If this is a guy who you’ve only been chatting with ONLINE for eight months and he says that he loves you, something’s very weird with that. It’s nearly impossible to fall in love with someone who you’ve never met. And if he’s disappearing from time to time with zero contact, there’s probably something going on in his life that you are unaware of – like another woman. Time for a real, live voice chat about what’s really going on.