Seven Feel-Good Strategies
How to get your happy on.
Nobody can be Rachael Ray-happy all the time (maybe not even Rachael herself!), but there are days when you wonder whether a smile will ever cross your face again. Most often, stress and worry are to blame for a miserable mood. While doing research for her book Bluebird: Women and the New Psychology of Happiness, journalist Ariel Gore discovered that anxiety, not sadness, was the true barrier to living happily. “Happiness and sadness can actually coexist quite comfortably,” she says. “Survival anxiety, money anxiety, social anxiety – those worries and stresses are the real killjoy.”
Fortunately, there are ways to feel better even in the midst of tense times. Here are just a few:
Listen to the music. It lowers your body’s level of cortisol (the stress hormone), reduces anxiety and can even improve your memory. Whether you love Mozart, Alicia Keys or Lady Gaga, it’s all good. Are you pregnant? One recent study found that lullabies and nature sounds were the best choices for helping moms-to-be relax.
Warm up. The comfort of feeling warm and cozy is a terrific stress-reducer. The doctors at the international Mandometer Clinics, which specialize in treating eating disorders, use warm rooms and blankets to help anorexic women curb their anxiety after meals. Take advantage of spring’s lingering chill by taking a hot shower and wrapping yourself in a fluffy robe afterward. Savor a cup of green tea or get a hot stone massage. If it’s a nice day, put on your sunscreen, grab a book and find a sunny spot.