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Should I Invite Him?
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I used to date this guy that was really good to me, but he started to make me feel depressed so I broke-up with him. It is now four months later and we’ve started talking again. Everything seems to be fine and I really want to see him. I was thinking about asking him to attend a party with me. Would that be too weird? Would he come?
Matt: If you are interested in trying again, then you’ve got to reach out. Whether or not he comes will depend on a number of circumstances, but the worst he will say is no. Regardless, I doubt your lines of communication will change. Regardless, make sure his pattern of behavior/attitude has changed – no point in riding the depression train again.