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Should We Give it Another Chance?
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I am 20 years old and my last boyfriend had some trust issues due to a faulty past relationship. After he broke up with the girl he was involved with, I was the only one who lasted for more than two weeks. We ended up dating for two and a half months, but then separated because he kept putting pressure on me to have sex. I didn’t want our first time to be like that. It has been a couple of months since we split up. He originally told me that he cared for me very much and that I was the only girl he waited so long to sleep with. Immediately after we broke things off he started talking to my best friend, and would send me photos of them together (I think out of spite).
We have remained “friends” – meaning we talk from time to time about life in general. Well last night we met in a club, and when I invited him to chill with my friends he accepted, much to my surprise. Now I have no clue what is going on in his mind or how he feels about me. Do you think there is a chance that we will get back together again? Should I even try, or would it be better for me to get over him?
Avery: I think that you should get over him. It doesn’t seem like this guy really knows what he wants and if that’s the case, why should you get hurt worrying about what his feelings are. And when he is flirty with your friends, it’s only going to make you feel worse.