The 6 Sex Toys and Accessories Every Woman Needs

From the latest gadgets to the hottest lingerie, these must-have items are guaranteed to spice up your sex life.
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3. A G-spot wand
If you don’t like to vibe, or if you just want to switch it up, Dr. Joy suggests a G-spot wand, like the NJOY Pure Wand ($108). Made of 316-grade stainless steel (the same material used in hip replacements!), this eco-friendly wand, and others like it, make penetration more substantial thanks to their curved design. “You can warm them up or cool them down,” says Dr. Joy. “They’re outstanding.”

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4. Crotchless panties
As women, we’re fully aware of the power of sexy lingerie. Myers suggests taking your collection to a whole other level with crotchless panties, like the Naughty Ballerina Crotchless Bikini ($26). “The peek-a-boo element of this seductive bikini makes for very exciting possibilities,” says Myers.

5. Arousal boosters
Whether solo or with a partner, we all need a little help sometimes. Other times, well maybe we just want to kick things up a notch. The good news is that suddenly, there are plenty of products on the market designed to enhance a woman’s pleasure – including several that are natural and/or hormone-free. One that caught our eye: Zestra (box of 12 packets, $49.95), which was specifically developed to “improve arousal, desire and satisfaction” for women. Applied topically, this blend of essential oils and extracts claims to increase sensitivity in minutes – and the effects can last for up to 45 minutes.

6. A pair of “hooker heels”
Sure, they’re not “toys,” but a pair of ultra-sexy high heels can do wonders. “These shouldn’t be the designer heels you wear outside,” says Dr. Joy. “What I’m talking about are slutty shoes you wouldn’t wear anywhere else because they’re so over-the-top sexy. They can put you in the mood when you’re alone, or they can help you anticipate a hot night with your guy. And, of course, men love super-sexy heels.” Looking for just the right thing? Opt for something in classic clear lucite, like these Juliet G Stiletto Heel Platform ($51.99).

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Faye Brennan is assistant editor at BettyConfidential.

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23 thoughts on “The 6 Sex Toys and Accessories Every Woman Needs

  1. I’m always curious about this stuff, but too embarrassed to spend a lot of time looking for more info — great to see it all here in one place!

  2. Great selection! Also, get a girlfriend to go to a sensuality shop with you if you don’t wanna do it over the internet. It’s kinda nice to see everything in person, and less embarrassing if someone’s with ya. :)

  3. @citymouse — find a Passion Parties rep in your area! I’m one in South Florida and let me tell you, there’s nothing more fun (or funnier!) than a bunch of women laughing and talking about sex and sex toys, especially after a glass of wine and some chocolate! I’m sure there are plenty in your area, and the parties are in your homes – no men or kids allowed! – and ordering is done completely confidentially in another room so no one else knows what you buy if you don’t want them to. :)

  4. @Candice – they are! Of course it depends on the “Diva” you get at the party – the first one I went to was kind of blah as far as she went, but the crowd more than made up for it – three generations from one family plus assorted others like me — and it was a BLAST. If you want to see what the company has, I have a website you can look at, and I BELIEVE there is a way to ask for a party where we can hook you up with someone in your area. :)

  5. I love my eroscillator — google it and check out the website — i get off in seconds, literally — it is awesome during sex too — so excellent on the clitoris – i cannot even begin to tell you.

  6. Ladies, you have to try the Hitachi Magic Wand vibrator. It is electric and the industrial strength power tool vibrator that is guaranteed to rock your world. I suggest using it while doing the nasty with the man in your life. You sit astride him facing away and it leaves plenty of room to apply the vibrator without it getting in the way. The guy gets to see his member impaling you which is a huge turn on for him. By riding him on top, you can slow things down and take your time. You need to move just enough to maintain his erection. When he is close to coming, pull off and have him go down on you and get you off again before allowing him to re-enter you. Doing it this way, you can stretch it to a couple of hours of multiple orgasms for you. You might even convince him that long drawn out sex is superior to wam baam thank you maam sex. Be sure to praise him for being a kind and considerate lover and how good he made you feel. It will reinforce that positive behavior and better sex for both of you

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  8. Unless people are in long-term relationships or marriages — and even then — no one should need to “accessorize.” The best accessory is a good imagination on the part of both people. Besides,
    these “toys” are over-the-top expensive.

  9. I would disagree bryony. First off for those women such as myself who are single, toys are a great way to satisfy ourselves instead of one night stands etc. Also I believe that thos ein long terms relationships etc. can use toys to make things a bit more exciting as sometimes routine sets in. You also say toys are expensive; Some are some aren’t. I personally have purchased my toys from and have been very pleased with their prices and service. I will agree with another poster here about the Hitachi Magic Wand. It is totally amazing and I would recommend every girl give it a try, you will certainly be glad that you did.

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