3. A G-spot wand
If you don’t like to vibe, or if you just want to switch it up, Dr. Joy suggests a G-spot wand, like the NJOY Pure Wand ($108). Made of 316-grade stainless steel (the same material used in hip replacements!), this eco-friendly wand, and others like it, make penetration more substantial thanks to their curved design. “You can warm them up or cool them down,” says Dr. Joy. “They’re outstanding.”
4. Crotchless panties
As women, we’re fully aware of the power of sexy lingerie. Myers suggests taking your collection to a whole other level with crotchless panties, like the Naughty Ballerina Crotchless Bikini ($26). “The peek-a-boo element of this seductive bikini makes for very exciting possibilities,” says Myers.
5. Arousal boosters
Whether solo or with a partner, we all need a little help sometimes. Other times, well maybe we just want to kick things up a notch. The good news is that suddenly, there are plenty of products on the market designed to enhance a woman’s pleasure – including several that are natural and/or hormone-free. One that caught our eye: Zestra (box of 12 packets, $49.95), which was specifically developed to “improve arousal, desire and satisfaction” for women. Applied topically, this blend of essential oils and extracts claims to increase sensitivity in minutes – and the effects can last for up to 45 minutes.
6. A pair of “hooker heels”
Sure, they’re not “toys,” but a pair of ultra-sexy high heels can do wonders. “These shouldn’t be the designer heels you wear outside,” says Dr. Joy. “What I’m talking about are slutty shoes you wouldn’t wear anywhere else because they’re so over-the-top sexy. They can put you in the mood when you’re alone, or they can help you anticipate a hot night with your guy. And, of course, men love super-sexy heels.” Looking for just the right thing? Opt for something in classic clear lucite, like these Juliet G Stiletto Heel Platform ($51.99).
Tell us: What’s your favorite sex toy?
Faye Brennan is assistant editor at BettyConfidential.