The 7 Sexiest Traits You Want in a Man

It takes more than rock-solid abs to reach the top of the sexiness charts.
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The 7 Sexiest Traits You Want in a Man

It takes more than rock-solid abs to reach the top of the sexiness charts.

-YourTango.com

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We’re not going to lie. A man boasting abs chiseled to perfection and biceps that pop just enough when flexed (without shredding shirts He-Man style) will no-doubt turn our heads. And even if caught mid check-him-out glance, we’re not about to look away. Fit, toned bodies are the result of hard work and dedication to a healthy lifestyle. We certainly pay homage to that. But for a man to achieve a skyrocketing score on the sexiness scale there’s got to be more to him than physical assets. Throw in these seven traits and he’s guaranteed irresistible.

1. He Has Mastered The Wink. We don’t know how they learn the technique but some guys really have the Richard Gere wink down pat. There’s an art to this wink and getting it right can be tricky. It’s more suave and smoky than cheeky and laughable. He’s comfortable giving this signal and has the timing to the tee. Done right, this move is pure sexy. Caveat: The wink can be tricky to pull off. Practice first.

2. He Radiates Calm. It’s sending shivers up our spine just thinking about how powerful a man’s calm presence can be. Neurotic or hyper or frenzied is stressful, no matter how busy the man or what his excuse. But if he’s got cool written all over his face and his gaze is pure steady and peaceful his sex appeal will shoot through the roof (think old-school James Dean). We women can unwillingly fall into the trap of over-worrying about things we can’t control. A man who sets us at ease by reminding us how things always manage to work out in the end is absolutely hot.

3. He Takes Care Of Himself. Look, we’re not saying it’s a certain height or build that matters. If he keeps his body in relatively good shape this shows us he knows how to take care of himself. It also clues us in that he sets health as a priority. What’s more, if he’s active, working out even a few times a week, the endorphins his body is producing during gym sessions are sure to keep him in good spirits and energized. The bottom line: If he takes good care of himself he’s likely to take good care of his partner (or at least help keep her motivated to do so). That’s a turn-on.


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0 thoughts on “The 7 Sexiest Traits You Want in a Man

  1. blondeambition says:

    He Has Style….yesss so hot. And I agree, a man who can confidently wink and not look like an ass is definitely sexy.

  2. mk_ultra says:

    I like a man with nice shoes.

  3. kisskiss says:

    Wow, dead on with the “radiates calm”. It’s probably the key to why we find certain men sexy!

  4. FBNYC says:

    “He Laughs Loud, Hard, Often” and “Radiates Calm” are my top two! Definitely!

  5. violetgal says:

    I put kindness and humor at the top of my list :) and great eyes doesn’t hurt either!

  6. justanothergirl says:

    Manly scent for me.. I love a man who can smell like sweat.. smoke.. and ralph laurence.. is yummy..

    can you imagine your guy smelling like he’s been sweating from work all day.. and though surrounded by smokers.. still has that polo sport smell on him.. but not as strong as it was the morning he went to work..

    or watch ur guy sweating as he pull up a sweat on ur bedroom door way.. then you slowly go up to him and offer to wipe all that sweat off.. and unexpectedly he still smells sweet without any colone.. yummy..

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