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Torn Between Two Men
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: Let’s call these two guys “M” and “D.” So I really like this one guy M but a few months ago M moved to Boston from North Carolina – where we both lived. A month after he moved I met an old fraternity brother of his named D, and we started going out. D pursued the relationship but I ended it because I couldn’t get M off my mind. So M and I had a conversation about the fact that we were mutually interested but the distance was too much for him. Now, D still thinks we should be together but I just can’t push M out of my mind and I don’t know who I should pick. Help!
Steven: It sounds like you might be addicted to drama. How should I know who you should pick? Do you know what you want? If not, you can’t find something unless you know what you are looking for. I also wonder whether you have been upfront with both of these guys about the situation you find yourself in. Remember if you are not up front, chances are they are not being up front and honest with you about what is going on in their lives. Remember, being honest with yourself and others can give you great clarity to determine what the best move is for you.