Uncomfortable with Anal Sex

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Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I am involved with this guy who’s really into anal sex, but I’m not sure how comfortable I am with it. What’s your advice? What do you think about anal sex?

Steven: Since you are uncomfortable with this, you should talk to him and decide what is right for you.

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  1. As a guy, I always tell my partners “Don’t do, or allow me to do, anything with which you are not 100% comfortable”
    Make up your own mind, but if he is going to insist or be difficult, ditch him.

  2. I wasnt comfortable with anal sex at first either. I was the one always says you will never catch me doing that. But I been with me partner for 2yrs and he sometimes hinted at the idea but never pushed the issue. This year I tried it. Its very uncomfortable at first,and still is, but my advice is, u will never know if you like something until you try it. First I googled anal sex, yes google. I had to make sure I was ready for this step. As of today,We have tried anal 3 times. Im still trying to get used to it, but I can feel a orgasm in the future. But if you do choose to go through with it, just relax.. I say its like losing another virginity. Good Luck

  3. If you aren’t comfortable with it, ask yourself why.

    Do you think it will hurt? There are lots of legit sites that explain how to do it best. Most just say “lot’s of lubricant”. Like girlfriend 2 said, relax and give it a try. If it hurts, tell him and stop. Just try again another time, and be very careful. Don’t be too scared if it hurts the first time. It can feel weird, but also kind of amazing.

    Do you feel gross? Maybe it’s body image or you just don’t feel sexy when your boy is looking at your anus. I mean, I can understand that. But as a guy, if he’s having sex with you, loves you, and talks about anal he’s going to be very turned on trying it and won’t be grossed out by you (even if THAT happens). He’ll probably be very understanding and be willing to go at your speed.

    Is it the stigma? Well, this is YOUR sex life with YOUR boy. If you like it, are curious, whatever… and it’s safe, why not? Nobody else has to know (unless you want to liberate their sex lives as well…).

    My girlfriend felt very strange about it at first. I told he I was interested, but never pressed the issue. She eventually said she was open to giving it a try. We’ve only played around (not vigorous at all), but it means a lot to me that she was open to trying things.

    Hope that helps.

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