Want Better Sex? Love Your Vagina

Three facts about your vagina to improve your sex life
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A pretty woman lying on her bed2. Worst case scenario your vagina looks like … a vagina. When you look at your vagina, it might seem like there’s an excessive amount of folds, parts or protrusions. But no matter what you may think yours looks like, it just looks like a vagina. And as any gyno will tell you, vaginas come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and colors that are all normal.

3. It smells like pussy, but that’s a good thing. Your vagina doesn’t smell like flowers, spring rain or even nothing at all. It smells like vagina, and that’s just fine.

Many guys will tell you, the scent of a healthy vagina is a turn on. Smell is the sense most closely tied to memory, and when guys smell vagina, they think of sex (just think of it as porn for his nostrils). When your partner goes down there, he knows what he’s getting himself into – he’s not expecting it (or wanting it) to smell any differently. So even if you can’t fully appreciate your scent, know it’s that very scent that’s getting him in the mood.

4. A guy can’t leave you for a girl who doesn’t have one. If a guy doesn’t like vaginas then he’s in a pretty rough spot if he wants to be dating women. Maybe you think vaginas are gross, but your guy can’t. As long as he’s straight he pretty much has to be pro vajayjay.

5. It’s just as good as the competition. If you didn’t have a vagina, you’d have a penis and testicles – it’s generally one or the other. And male anatomy is no picnic either. Embarrassing erections, embarrassing non-erections, the size, the stamina, and yes, the smell too. Vaginas aren’t perfect, and neither is penis or any other part of our body.

But as many things as we may dislike about our genitals, they allow us to experience the physical pleasures and intimacy of sex, and that’s a pretty damn good part of being human.


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15 thoughts on “Want Better Sex? Love Your Vagina

  1. littlelady says:

    Good points…but I still think the V’s are ugly!

  2. violetgal says:

    I definitely think that any man, who doesn’t like the way women smell, is gay. Women who like women don’t have a problem with it, so much have zero excuse in my book.

  3. violetgal says:

    Oops :P , meant to say “so MEN” have zero excuse

  4. cyboth says:

    Well Violetgal, better start to wash better… i think you are a lesbian.

  5. chocolate4538 says:

    women nor men should smell in my book atleast not in the genital area.

  6. GerryH says:

    Sorry to be pedantic, but should the article not be titled ‘Love your Vulva’
    The vagina is the internal part, the vulva is the external bits. You REALLY have to contort yourself with a mirror to see the vagina.
    I have spent many hours convincing my current girlfriend that she should love hers.

  7. alterego says:

    Cyboth, I hate to break it to you, but no matter how much you “wash”, you too have an odor — as do all women, naturally. Get used to it and don’t hate your own body.

  8. girlfriend_2 says:

    All men and women have odors. But its how you keep up your personal hygiene. All vaginas and penises have unique smells. I know my does. You should know your own body parts and smells. Become 1 with yourself. Dont be afraid to take a mirror and see exactly what he sees. And dont be afraid to examine his either. I examine mine daily, as well as his before and after oral sex. Get close and personal.

  9. Mate says:

    I agree with GerryH: Why do women in the media (and I guess women in general) call the female genitals you look at, a “vagina” when usually they are referring to the “vulva” (the parts you can easily see)?

  10. saveme says:

    no matter how ugly it is, u have to love it. its part of you.

  11. pillowchats_com says:

    Few women have great orgasms all the time. For many, orgasms are easier to come by with assistance from the finger, toys, etc. According to researchers, women with a c-v distance of 2.5cm are a lot more likely to have orgasms through penile stimulation alone. Others, are less likely. http://bit.ly/wfNnj

  12. VIXEN says:

    i jst looovvveee my vagina!!!!!!!! who doznt??????

  13. TantricMasseur44 says:

    Hello, Amber Madison.
    This article has some good points. Pity about the incorrect terminology. I’m with GerryH and Mate on this one. If you’re going to write about the appearance of the female genitals, at least TRY to get your terminology right. The parts that you are referring to are called the VULVA. The Vagina is the INTERNAL passage that connects the EXTERNAL Vulva with the INTERNAL Uterus. Vaginas and Uteruses(es) (es) are VERY rarely seen by anybody except obstetricians and gynaecolgists although most men do OCCASIONALLY get a ‘one-eyed’ view of a vagina – if they’re lucky – some more than others.

    Is the general female perception of the vulva so unfavourable that most of them even refuse to use the correct name for it or is this just a media thing?

    Ladies, I’d suggest that you love ALL of your sexual organs, particularly your Vulva and your Vagina, ‘cos they have the capacity to give you HUGE amounts of pleasure, especially if you learn to ‘drive’ them properly and help your man – or men – to learn how to ‘drive’ them properly too.

    I LOVE sending women ‘out of control’.

    Just my 0.02.

    You all have a wonderful sex life.
    Besat wishes.
    TantricMasseur44.

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