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What Does He Want?
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: My boyfriend broke up with me last week because – according to him – I argued too often. We have spent time together since the split, and on one occasion he confessed to still loving me even though he doesn’t want a relationship. However, he said he would be very hurt if I were to date somebody else. I am so confused. Should I continue seeing him, or should I stop?
Avery: Your ex-boyfriend wants to have his cake and eat it too. If you are broken up, then you are free to date whomever you want – regardless of what he says he wants you to do. If he’s truly upset that you guys broke up, and he wants to get back together, then he’ll tell you that he wants to be back in an exclusive relationship and then you can decide if you want to go back down that path.