Do a Guy’s Friends Influence His Choice Of Girlfriend?

Can his buddies' opinions make or break your relationship?
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That said, friends can have a big impact, especially in the beginning when you’re trying to form your initial impressions, before the blind love sets in. Typically, “guys who have bromances with their buddies tend to be more influenced by what their friends think,” says sex educator and Good in Bed expert Amy Levine. “If the bunch is mostly single, you can bet that a suggested hook-up will take precedence over taking a relationship to the next level.”

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If his friends think you are hot and perfect for him, he is much more likely to see you as hot and perfect. However, if they equivocate or see flaws, he might see them too – of course, he might also tell his friends to go screw themselves. But, says Kerner, “The impressions of good friends should be heeded. Lust is a little like driving drunk. It’s important to have the opinions of someone you can trust to take the wheel.”

Some men have a core group of friends, are grounded, want a relationship, and are able to call their own shots. These men tend to consider it a ‘bonus’ if their friends really like their girlfriend. They also tend to be more confident in the idea that their tastes in people cross over from relationships to friendships, resulting in a higher chance of one getting along well with the other. These, ladies are the best types of boyfriends to have!

So, yes, oftentimes it does matter what your man’s friends think of you, but if he is secure in himself and his opinions, he will ultimately be making the decision on you anyway. Isn’t a sure, confident boyfriend what you were looking for in the first place?

Kristen Mark, MSc, is an Associate Instructor for Health and Human Sexuality courses at IU and is a Project Coordinator for the Center for Sexual Health Promotion. For more of Kristen, please visit goodinbed.


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0 thoughts on “Do a Guy’s Friends Influence His Choice Of Girlfriend?

  1. sidneyanne says:

    I feel very fortunate that my guy’s friends and family think I’m the best thing that ever happened to him. I like them all, too. In fact, his very best friend paid me the ultimate compliment last week. He said, I’m really glad you’re there. He’s happier than I’ve ever seem him.” That’s a big deal since they’ve been friends for over 40 years.

  2. rmgm says:

    Friends’ opinions are important. Sometimes they can see something that one of the people involved in the relationship cannot.

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