Guys Answer: How to Score a Second Date
You ladies loved this article, so we’re bringing it back! Here, real guys explain what a girl can do to get asked out again.
There’s a big difference between a first and second date. You can go on a dozen first dates and they can mean nothing if the guy just isn’t right for you. But a second date means you like him and he likes you. Or at the very least, you both see potential in your connection, and would like to see where things go.
In order to get to that point, we asked guys what girls can do to bring them back for round two. Here’s what they had to say:
“A girl can increase her odds by being appreciative for her date paying and by showing selfless traits.” – Scott, 36, NY
“Listen carefully and respond thoughtfully. Talk honestly about yourself but leave skeletons in the closet.” – Paul, 53, MA
“Honestly, all it takes is for her to show that she’s having a good time by showing some interest in me! Other than that, unless the date is a total disaster – bad conversation, awkward pauses, or the feeling of ‘get me out of here’ – I’d say that chances are good for round two!” – JP, 28, NY