Haven't We Learned Our Lesson? Stop Picking on Gavin Rossdale for His Gay Fling

Gavin Rossdale had a short fling with Marilyn, a cross-dressing singer, when he was 17-years old. Now, it's making headlines? Get over it!

Haven’t We Learned Our Lesson? Stop Picking on Gavin Rossdale for His Gay Fling

Gavin Rossdale had a short fling with Marilyn, a cross-dressing singer, when he was 17-years old. Now, it’s making headlines? Get over it!

-Faye Brennan

Gavin Rossdale

Following the recent devastating gay suicides, it seems like the whole country has adopted a newfound anti-bullying attitude, and mean celeb bloggers like Perez Hilton have vowed to stop picking on celebs. Yet, one of the biggest stories making headlines this week is how Gavin Rossdale, Gwen Stefani’s husband, has admitted to Details that he had a gay fling with cross-dressing singer Marilyn, aka Peter Robinson, back when he was 17.

Of course, the interview wasn’t supposed to be about that. It was supposed to be about Gavin’s band, Bush, making a comeback. And yet, that news is being overshadowed by Gavin’s teenage experiments.

Gavin handles the topic in a very mature, civilized way when the interviewer brings it up. He admits to denying the relationship in the past, but only because he was just starting to become famous. He says “it felt like a cheap shot” when Boy George wrote about it in his 1995 book, Take It Like a Man.

Wouldn’t you feel uncomfortable if someone called out your love life in a book?

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Now, Gavin feels comfortable admitting to to the affair, but reasons, “It’s just one of those things: Move on. When you’re 17, Jesus Christ. I don’t think there’s anything strange about any form of–you’re learning about life. It’s a part of growing up. That’s it. No more, no less.”

Exactly. I’m sure many teenagers out there are applauding Gavin for this statement, because it isn’t a big deal. So move on, media outlets. Move on, bullies. Gavin experimented, and determined he liked women better. Now, he has an awesome wife and two beautiful little boys. Don’t harp on what he did years and years ago, making it out to be something much bigger than it really is. Because, when you do, you’re inadvertently suggesting that there’s something wrong or “newsworthy” about Gavin’s gay relationship, which fuels the fire for teen bullying.

There was nothing wrong about what Gavin did, and had he realized he was gay after his experimentation, there would be nothing wrong with that, either.

But, the fact that this part of the interview is what is being sensationalized proves that we have a long way to go before we can put an end to bullying. If news outlets and gossip blogs think it’s strange, then young people will think it’s strange, and bullying will never stop. Can’t you see how one influences the other? 

Faye Brennan is assistant editor at BettyConfidential.


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0 thoughts on “Haven't We Learned Our Lesson? Stop Picking on Gavin Rossdale for His Gay Fling

  1. Yay heels says:

    What he did or does in bed is private.

  2. sugarpie says:

    Can’t people be a bit more sophisticated about stuff like this? Move on already

  3. rlmccue says:

    I agree with the other two comments; it’s in the past, it’s private, it doesn’t matter. It’s just not relevant to me.

  4. K S says:

    Marilyn claims that the relationship lasted five years, which would take it out of the realm of brief teenage experimentation, don’t you think?

    It was a big story when Rossdale took a paternity test and found out that he’s the father of model Daisy Lowe. I don’t think that he’s being picked on or bullied now. It’s just another revelation. Funny how celebrities reveal things when they have an album or movie to promote.

  5. parkie says:

    Ah, the ONLY relevant thing is this– Bush is absolutely, positively, one of the most heinously awful bands ever. EVER. And whoever Gavin Rossdale has had sex with (or not) is just utterly not relevant. I think it’s fantastic of him to speak the truth, maybe it’ll help some people see this for what it is– a total non-issue. Gay, straight, bi, trans, questioning, whatev. We’ve all experimented or fantasized outside the narrow confines of a singular definition(or just lie and say we haven’t!). So good on him for being who he is & unashamed of who he’s had sex with. I respect him for that, even as I think his music is just unbelievably crappy. Bush seemed to want SO badly to be Nirvana, I’m surprised he didn’t get on the needle… just to be more like Kurt.
    xoxo~

  6. MeloolahJayne says:

    The relationship between Gavin and Marilyn was actually a 5-year relationship. That is a fact. It was NOT a one-night fling. And yes, it is private-NO ONE’S business. George was WRONG to release the info… as he is in so much that he does! The fact is, George LIES CONSTANTLY. Don’t believe what you read, folks…

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