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I give them exclusivity, then they split
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: Twice now in one year, I have been totally into a man who is totally into me. Then I let him know he has me exclusively, and they both slowly stopped talking to me, no explanations.
Steven: I’m not sure what your question is, but if you are wondering why this might be happening, consider that there may be something that you are doing that is turning off the guy or maybe you are being your true self and they are not the right guys for you. Either way, remember the only person you can ever control is yourself. And sometimes by us looking at ourselves and how we act, that can inspire others to react differently. Whatever you do, try not to blame others or yourself but instead look for the lessons learned out of these situations that can help you move forward in your life.