Is it Just Porn or Cheating?

ASK REAL GUYS Is it Just Porn or Cheating? Dear ASK REAL GUYS: In the past I have noticed my husband’s porn addiction starting to get out of control. When I first started dating him I was OK with watching it together, but when I caught him several times on the internet late at night […]

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Is it Just Porn or Cheating?

Dear ASK REAL GUYS: In the past I have noticed my husband’s porn addiction starting to get out of control. When I first started dating him I was OK with watching it together, but when I caught him several times on the internet late at night trying to be sneaky about it I had to put my foot down. I got a huge garbage bag, and out went him and the naughty stuff! Yes, I later forgave him.

My friends say it’s normal and all men do it, but when I let him back home, my browser history was full of nude searches for every type of women that I am not, so this is why I’m so concerned. My husband no longer has access to my computer, but I can’t shake the thought that he has this sick and twisted life outside of the home. I tell him all the time just go and be happy, just as easily as he can find someone else I can do the same, but he swears it’s just me and he’s so turned on by me. Is it just porn or is it cheating?

Steven: When I hear things like this I wonder if you are ignoring a bigger issue? For example, if your husband was very loving and attentive and you had a wonderful sex life, but he was watching porn, is that a big deal? It is most likely a big deal because one or all of these areas are lacking. My suggestion is to focus on the real issue. For example, if porn is the only major problem and it is against your beliefs, than it sounds like a non-negotiable and it is time to move forward. Whatever it is, make sure you are crystal clear on what is non-negotiable and what you really want in a man and then operate accordingly.


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