Moms' Biggest Health Problems

We take care of others-but often neglect ourselves.
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Moms’ Biggest Health Problems

We take care of others—but often neglect ourselves.

-Jennifer Lubell

Moms' health problems

Susan Tordella, a mother of four in Ayer, Massachusetts, once fell on her right shoulder while skiing and couldn’t sleep on her right side for six months. Yet she never went to the doctor.

The shoulder still bothers her more than ten years later, she says, admitting there have been many times she’s been reluctant to schedule doctor’s appointments for herself—or even take charge of her mental health.

“I was depressed and didn’t know it for at least a decade or more,” Tordella says. “It finally surfaced when I was 34. My youngest child went to kindergarten. I started crying and couldn’t stop–not because of missing her. My life’s focus was gone, and I had to pay attention to my own pain.” She finally sought help through workshops and therapy, but like many moms, had simply refused to deal with a health issue until it was too dangerous to ignore.

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It’s ironic that mothers, who worry constantly about their kids’ health, often fail to take care of themselves. How? Debbie Mandel, a fitness and stress management expert, says moms “neglect their health by eating on the run and eating to self-soothe, failing to exercise, neglecting to rest and sleep, and getting into a stress cycle.”  Mandel, the author of Addicted to Stress: A Woman’s 7 Step Program to Reclaim Joy and Spontaneity in Life, says such neglect can lead to a number of health problems.

Here are some of the most common, and what you should do about them:


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0 thoughts on “Moms' Biggest Health Problems

  1. uptowngirl says:

    Take care of yourselves, moms! You’re so important!

  2. sugarpie says:

    All women, not just moms, have to learn to take care of themselves. We put others first too often!!

  3. mannequin says:

    I learned this lesson in the hardest way possible.

  4. abc1234567 says:

    It will always be this this way for a true loving mother. Robert O.

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