It’s a shame to think that an animal could get in the way of two people falling in love with each other. But if you’re close to your pet and a new date has either a terrible allergy or an extreme revulsion to your pet, I’d say the odds of it working out aren’t great. But a mild dislike for your pet shouldn’t be a deal breaker. Maybe keep the animal away from your date in the beginning. If you discover this guy has long-term potential, you can revisit the discussion with him about your pet and what it will mean for the relationship.
Neely Steinberg is a dating/relationships columnist and is Boston’s Premier Dating Coach for the Modern-day Woman.
Pets are good judges of character. So if your pet and your date don’t get along, that’s the first sign that the person you’re about to hang with may not really be what you think. The pet came before the date, so correct dating and pet behavior is this: You schmooze up to the date if you want her to like you. So if you want hang out with that person, you’d better buddy up to the pet. That dog, cat, fish, gerbil…they’re going to be your best friend real soon. So if this person doesn’t like your pet, the best four-letter word in the English language is about to be used: N-E-X-T. You don’t give up your pet for anybody.
David Wygant is a dating coach for men and women.
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