No Sex? Take Charge of Your Life
Don’t be sexless, do something!
We expect it, it is good for our health, we need it, we want it; we’re a young and healthy couple. So it comes as a surprise when, for one reason or another, we stop having sex.
Pinpointing the reason for lack of sex is the major key to getting back a healthy sex life. Unfortunately too many people put the subject of sex aside hoping “things will straighten out on their own eventually.” Not so, they won’t.
What are some of the things that cause no sex relationships?
Our frenetic lifestyles for one; we tend to put sex last on our daily “to do” list. Work, activities, long hours of “day-into-night,” all lead to exhaustion and exhaustion leads to lack of sex drive. How romantic can you be when you can barely keep your eyes open?
As one harried woman put it:
“I hate to say it but sometimes sex is just one more chore I’m required to do.”
Researchers have found that when couples in so-called sexless relationships are able to get away from stress at work, and in life in general, and vacation on their own, their sexual activity is comparable to what is commonly called ‘honeymoon sex’. It becomes a priority when they are relaxed and stress is a distant memory.