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Reacting from My Past
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I am not wealthy, but I am comfortable and earn more than most women. I was financially ripped off by an ex and now only date wealthy men so that does not happen again. I’m not particularly interested in marriage, so why do men think I’m primarily interested in their money?
Steven: It may be because of your words and actions. The bigger question is why have you chosen to react from your past situation instead of learning from your past situation. Focusing on only dating wealthy men may prevent you from finding a man who is wealthy at heart. Maybe it is time, during this holiday season, to give the gift of forgiveness to yourself for what happened to you in the past and to open your heart to other possibilities.