Sikh Woman Balpreet Kaur Turns Cyber Bullying Incident into Inspiration

Meet our new favorite person, Balpreet Kaur, and learn about what makes her so extraordinary.
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Balpreet Kaur

Sikhism was founded in the Punjab region of India in the 15th century; there are approximately 30 million Sikhs in the world. Followers believe in the equality of all human beings and in a single, infinitely powerful, omnipresent, genderless God. Instead of heaven or hell, the religion promotes salvation through a spiritual union with God; ego, anger, greed, attachment, and lust are considered the Five Evils. Sikhs do not believe in recruiting converts, though they welcome those who wish to join their faith. Once baptized or formally initiated into the faith, they vow to wear five religious symbols at all times, one of which is leaving their body hair uncut.

“Yes, I’m a baptized Sikh woman with facial hair. Yes, I realize that my gender is often confused and I look different than most women,” wrote Kaur, who is the president of the Ohio State University’s Sikh Student Association. “My attitude and thoughts and actions have more value in them than my body… by not focusing on the physical beauty, I have time to cultivate those inner virtues and hopefully, focus my life on creating change and progress for this world in any way I can.”

Her words quickly inspired readers on Reddit and elsewhere to reevaluate their reactions. A cross-post on the Facebook page for Kaurista garnered more than 6,750 likes and more than 850 comments.

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“I know that I don’t have the courage to live that purely,” Shannon Dolce commented on Facebook. “I am inspired to live MORE true to how my creator sees me, though.”

“I think we can agree that even the non-religious can benefit from taking a page from your book — thank you,” wrote a Redditor named “anothertimearound.”

“You are awesome. If your faith has made you this well-adjusted and positive and secure in your own skin, and focused on the things in life that truly matter, then I am glad that there are Sikhs in this world.” Reddit reader “Anna Mosity” wrote. “The world could use more people like you.”

A few days later, the Reddit user who posted the picture started a new thread to apologize to Kaur.

“I felt the need to apologize to the Sikhs, Balpreet, and anyone else I offended when I posted that picture,” the Redditor wrote. “Put simply it was stupid. Making fun of people is funny to some but incredibly degrading to the people you’re making fun of. It was an incredibly rude, judgmental, and ignorant thing to post.”

“I’ve read more about the Sikh faith and it was actually really interesting. It makes a whole lot of sense to work on having a legacy and not worrying about what you look like. I made that post for stupid internet points and I was ignorant.” he continued. “Balpreet, I’m sorry for being a closed minded individual. You are a much better person than I am. Sikhs, I’m sorry for insulting your culture and way of life. Balpreet’s faith in what she believes is astounding.”

Kaur says that she’s happy to spend time explaining her religion and her appearance to people. “I do not think explaining myself and the way I am is a waste of energy because storytelling in itself is a way to fight the apathy in this world,” she explained in a follow-up post on Thursday. “By simple interactions like this, we can better understand each other and make this world more open and loving even if it is just one person or many.”

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