Welcome to Fantasies Island
Now that you’re in a relationship with someone you trust, it’s time to start taking even more risks. Don’t get lazy! This is your chance to explore all those fantasies you have with someone you love and who will laugh the whole experience off if it ends up being ridiculous.
We often find a partner and immediately put the relationship on autopilot. Security and safety are wonderful parts of a monogamous relationship, but they’re not exciting. That’s why people don’t date their 401K’s. Boring!
Now is your chance to really spread your wings and try new stuff with your partner. Maybe you’re feeling “porny” one night, or maybe you two need to have a little in-town vacation in an expensive hotel room. Find a secluded part of your local state park to really explore “nature,” or take a vow of celibacy to see who can make the other break first. Whatever it is, whether sexual or just nude para-sailing lessons, keep growing and adding new elements to the relationship.
Doing this will not only keep your monogamous relationship as compelling as it was in week ten, but it will keep reassuring you and your partner that pairing for life was the way to go.
Tell us: what do you do to keep your relationship exciting?
Brian Clark is an actor/writer living in Los Angeles. He cares about people. But to keep it fresh he has also rescued an insane pitbull mix named Bombay.