6. Changing passcodes.
Your mate frequently changes telephone, email and social networking site login information.
7. Constantly working late.
Your mate is constantly coming home late and blames it on their work schedule—even when it is not the busy season. The same would hold true for a higher volume of business trips.
8. Changes in sexual patterns and/or alertness.
You and your mate used to have sex three to four times per week. Lately, your partner seems disinterested and now you have sex only once a week or less. Or, your mate asks you to try new positions or “sex toys,” even knowing you may not be comfortable with it.
9. Immediate shower upon arriving home.
Hitting the shower after he comes home, especially when it was not his normal routine. Upon returning home, your mate immediately runs to the shower before greeting you in an effort to wash away any evidence.
10. Changing underwear a lot.
You notice your mate has been wearing new and sexier under garments. Or, you find your mate’s under garments in the garbage.
If this is happening in your life, you can make a number of choices. They include confronting your partner, trying couples therapy or ending the relationship. The choice is yours.
“America’s Marriage Coach” Jacqueline Del Rosario is President and CEO of Recapturing the Vision International, an organization dedicated to promoting healthy marriages and family strengthening. Also a published author, speaker and nationally regarded media personality, Dr. Del Rosario has been a certified pre and post-marital counselor for more than 20 years. Her cutting-edge series, Marriage Solutions and The Marital Constitution™,help couples successfully work through problems and find healthy solutions. She has two children and currently resides in Miami, Fl with her husband of over 20 years. Dr. Del Rosario may be reached online.