2. Two at once: Showcase your skills before going all the way. Remember when you were in high school and all the “bases” you could get to – well just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean those are gone! Playing with your breasts, giving him oral or a handjob, or just making out for a while before sex sets the tone and leads in to having intercourse. “My girlfriend gives me oral and plays with herself at the same time – it’s like all this action at once. I love it and it gets me ready to go,” Mark from Los Angeles tells us.