What Guys Want: 5 Foreplay Tips

Follow these 5 foreplay tips to pre-game with your man.
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4. Do a little something special: You don’t have to cook an eight course meal to impress your man. Set the mood with subtle turn-ons like scented candles, lingerie, or a cocktail ready for him when he comes home. “Normally my girlfriend and I are so busy the evening plans are always just something kind of low key, but once in a while I come home and she’s just watching TV with a sexy negligee on, and made me a little snack: I know what’s up, and it doesn’t feel overwhelming and pressured like a full on dinner with candles and romantic music. Her subtle effort is a big turn on,” says Claude from Dallas.


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  1. I know that a lot of women have difficulty with it but talking dirty to a guy is a real turn on and telling him everything that you are going to do to him and telling him what you want him to do to you in raw graphic terms. The dirtier the better. Woody Allen was once asked if sex is dirty and his reply was yes if you are doing it right.

    Another huge turn on for a lot of guys is for the woman to take charge once in a while. I love it when my woman sits on my face and demands that I satisfy her orally before she will let me go for the main event. I love it when she does pelvic thrusts on my tongue and mouth again talking dirty to me.

  2. From a guy who has had more than his share of experience w/women(though he ‘did not believe in himself, had poor self-esteem, and although he could see the issues of others as if through thin glass-could not recognize a ‘pass’ from a lady unless it ran into him)
    1)People are not ‘robots’, due to being M or F.

    2)I tended to hang with a crowd of guys like myself (to a degree)-athletic, outdoor, adventurous, intellegent–we also found out we had another thing- a mother/mother figure/father/etc… that said “Treat a woman with respect~real women deserve it.” Also found out that they said “Treat a man with the same respect-if they deserve it.” If you want a guy to treat you like crap and slap you around(non-sexual,unwanted), or vice verse, go find some scumbags.

    3)I hate these lists-they could be right on for one man/woman-exact opposite for the next.

    4)I think the key is communication, real communication-talking, smiling , showing, whispers, kissing, etc… etc… I once had a woman say to me, “you shouldn’t have to talk about problems or discuss sex-they will work themselves out. Kind of like when I made a wrong turn and skiied off a cliff in a double-black diamond run. It worked out great.

    5)Take it slow, experiment, ASK, tell and be respectful. It’s a hell of a lot better than a to do/don’t list to me. ;-}

  3. I have ONE problem with this. Each person is different. What works for one may not work for another.
    Also Bath Not shower. It gets the down uner parts clean and fresh smelling which a shower unless you have the flexible and higher pressure shower head won't do.

  4. i don’t like to shower with my guy. number one, one of us always ends up cold and in tht back and i have things i need to take care of like shaving, getting hard to reach spots. all the rest i’m cool with

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