ASK REAL GUYS
Does Size Matter?
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I am somewhat overweight but not obese by any means. Do guys really find this unattractive?
Steven: Generally speaking thin is in. Not super thin but looking healthy and fit. Even if some guys don’t mind, a lot do and if you have that weight you will reduce the potential possibilities of men that might be interested. But let’s put aside what guys think.
The key question is what do you think? Are you happy with your weight and most importantly, your health? If not, you might want to look at losing the weight, not for men (although that could be a motivator), but for yourself. They say that 95 percent of people who lose weight gain it back. So be careful with how you go about it so if you choose to lose weight you can keep it off permanently. If you want to know a good book on this to start you on your journey I would recommend, Dr. Eric Berg’s book, Seven Principles of Fat Burning. I am sure if you put your mind to it you can achieve the goals you set out so you can live a long and healthy life.