ASK REAL GUYS
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: Recently I met a guy and am surprised that anytime he says or promises something, he keeps forgetting or sending an email that he can’t fulfill the promise. The only thing he doesn’t forget is when you are supposed to go and visit him. Is this guy real or just a player?
Steven: I don’t know, but the ability to make and keep commitments is key to building a trustworthy relationship. It is one thing to occasionally forget to return a call or a message but what you seem to be implying is that this is a pattern. This is definitely something to pay attention to because if you think about it, when you move forward in life you need to know that you can count on his word. So the key question to ask yourself is: is he a man of his word? Remember, actions speak louder than words.