What Would Debbie Do?
Confused and Crushing
I have 3 huge crushes on these guys. They are all cute, but I think only one of them likes me. He’s 2 years older than me and really nice to me. Another one is 3 years older than me and super cute and super nice. The last one is my age and but he’s mean to me sometimes. What should I do? Who should make the first move? Who should I go for? PLEASE HELP!!! Thank you so much.
OK…for starters, lets get down to basics: a woman never picks one guy over another because “he’s super cute and super nice.” And she definitely doesn’t go out with the guy who is “mean sometimes.” I think your “crushes” and seeming infatuations with these guys are clouding your good judgment. I didn’t hear anything about common interests, chemistry, mutual respect, or anything that could help me help you out of this predicament. I say you go back, get to know these “crushes” and figure out just who is the most compatible with you based on something other than good looks and being sweet. Because it takes more than that to have a good relationship. Unless, of course, you’re just looking for a good time, and then, by all means, pick the cuter one!!