ASK REAL GUYS
Dating a Widow
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: Would a successful, attractive male date a widow?
Steven: Yes. If this is not happening, look to see if you’re talking about your past or comparing your deceased spouse to the present men you are meeting. Comparison is natural. The key is to find out whether you have created a standard that other men feel like they could never live up to. It is equivalent to when a woman has a past relationship that has ended and talks about it in such a glorified way that a man does not feel that he could ever live up to it and therefore chooses to not even try. Remember to not demand things of other people but to inspire them to live up to the standards that you deserve.