Do Guys Prefer Women with Big Booties?

What's the deal with men and women's butts? Real guys do their best to explain.
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Do Guys Prefer Women with Big Booties?

What’s the deal with men and women’s butts? Real guys do their best to explain.

-Justin DeMarco


“There is no better sight than a shapely butt that looks like an apple you want to take a bite out of tucked underneath a tight skirt or being hugged by a pair of jeans,” Bruce, a 36-year-old Massachusetts sports writer, says. “A little wiggle or shake turns my head every time.”

To answer the question: yes. Yes. YES! Men love big butts and cannot lie. The way other brothers can’t deny, that when a girl walks in with an itty, bitty waist and a round thing in their face, they get sprung. Fine, I just intentionally plagiarized a rapper named Sir Mix-A-Lot, but no one has ever said it better. (Bruce, don’t worry, you’re a close second.)

Big butts are where it’s at. Sure, men love boobs, but booties are the only body part we can feel free to glance at any time, any place, and not have to face the consequences of being looked at as a creep by the woman we’re sneaking a peek at.

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“If butt guys were easy to spot, women would have eyes in the back of their heads,” says Mike, a 27-year-old New York City Police Officer. “That’s the only way they’d know. A boob guy, on the other hand, is usually front and center and is easy to spot.”

Glancing guilt-free is only the start when it comes to the perks of the good ol’ fashioned behind.

“The bigger, the better,” Ahmad, a 25-year-old co-manager of a Brooklyn supermarket, says. “My big hands need a big butt to grab on. Little butts are a turn-off. It’s like grabbing a tennis ball.”

Ross, a 24-year-old law student from Maine, doesn’t like to compare a woman’s anatomy to a sporting object. Rather, he uses Charles Darwin’s theory of ‘Survival of the Fittest’ when it comes to butts. “Women with smaller butts seem too weak or fragile,” he says. We know what happens to the weak and fragile in Darwin’s world, but in ours, they just won’t be approached by Ross at a bar.

So what do guys consider to be the perfect butt size?

“38-48 inches,” Malik, a 39-year-old Brooklyn salesman, says. “Big booties are the best. I love the weight.”

Chad, a 26-year-old New Yorker, must not have had his tape measure handy, but he knows his butt shape A, B, C’s, and his favorite are the “D’s.” “The key to a perfect ass is all about the profile,” the accountant/writer says. “You want the tush to come out from the seat, not the waist – almost like a lower case ‘d’, but not as ridiculous.”

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31 thoughts on “Do Guys Prefer Women with Big Booties?

  1. Ok, so … it’s established. men generally prefer women with some “meat” on their bones. So wen is the fashion industry — and the women’s magazine industry — going to get the memo???

  2. Hey, I think this piece is funny. I love hearing what guys have to say, though I’m never going to fall over myself trying to fit someone else’s standards.

  3. I think it’s funny too. And I think if you love your bootie, your guy will love it too. I have a button butt and I’m proud of it – it’s small but cute!

  4. I’m so glad that Jake, the PR guy from Vermont, took time out from his life to instruct all women to hit the gym and take care of themselves. From this day forward, I will act accordingly. Thanks, Jake.

    *rolls eyes*

  5. Wow, maybe I should stop working so hard and clear my social calendar so I can spend more time at the gym. Gotta keep those male strangers happy!

  6. Lately, I’ve been hearing more guys describe themselves as “butt” guys over “boobs.” I think it’s interesting, but it’s not going to make me change anything about myself.

  7. Im a 64 year old man and i just won’t to say ladies just be yourself and don’t care what the male dog thinks his mind and thoughts change every 10 sec. semper fi ladies.

  8. Okay Justin DeMarco, next time I want a man who loves me for my “bootie”, I’ll come to you for advice. Next time, when I lose all my dignity and self respect, when I don’t have to work two jobs just to stay in school…maybe I’ll care when I have the time. I’m just glad that SOME men like women for who they are, flaws and all.

  9. People are so susceptible to what media portrays as hot, its pathetic. This article just pisses me off. The big butt that these men are desiring is just as unattainable as huge boobs are for someone who was born naturally with no chest- either you were born with it (which is rare), get it with plastic surgery or don’t have it at all. Because you know these men aren’t feigning after a big fat woman with a huge as* – they want you to have a small waist and be somewhat fit, and then just have a huge as*. There are VERY few women who have that body type. And for women that are just naturally slight, and have somewhat small curves…..There seems to be this misconception that if you work hard enough at the gym, you can build yourself a Beyonce butt. Well that is just plain ridiculous. I think I want to slap the sh*t out of every guy in this article.

  10. Wow! I am amazed at how many women are actually pissed off here… It’s a nonsensical article, ladies. No one is telling you what to do, just what they like… and they do not count for the majority of the population! If you want to get mad, then get mad at the fashion industry for its portrayal of women. If you’re mad at these guys for saying what they like, then you have no right to say what you like without being judged yourselves. So seriously, lighten up! Guys will be guys no matter what… and we will be beautiful, fabulous, awesome women no matter what our body shape, color, religion or whatever! There are more important things to stress about than this. Have a great day!

  11. Anyone who says that “nothing tastes as good as skinny feels” is either lying or has never tasted creme brulee before. (And yes, I have been skinny so I do know how it ‘feels.’ I’m much happier when I get to eat what I like, even if it means I can’t quite fit into a size six anymore.)

    Oh, and guys? The next time you see a hot chick with her not-so-hot boyfriend and wonder, “How on Earth did that guy end up dating that ass?” It might be because he actually refers to her as an entire person, rather than reducing her to a single body part. Just a possibility!

  12. I am not sure that I agree with this article. Simply put, I prefer women who maintain their natural look. NO over-sized body parts. I find big parts revolting. As for “brains”, girleegirl? I have found that the more “brainy” a woman is, the more she will play with a mans head, taking what SHE wants, then dumping him, when he asks for what he wants. I remain steadfast, in my opinion that I like women to be natural. Ofcourse, I respect others personal opinions. Just DONT include me with the groups who like their women “super-sized”.

  13. Gee Nice message to send to young women…guess I’ll kill myself since I wasn’t blessed with a huge ass and Ross won’t buy me a drink at the bar “ugg” well I hope Ahmad has a huge penis to back up his stupid tennis ball analogy…oh yeah dudes hope you all have at least 8 inches

  14. It does appear that everyone is taking this article way too seriously. I am not trying to make fun of the article, but I am sure the every woman has some thought or idea about what they like about men, arms, chest, abs, ass, and even the size of his penis. As I have gotten older my thoughts, likes, and desires have changed. True the fashion idiots and clothing manufacturers along with the movie and TV industries are big culprits in all of this. OK OK….. Even though as a young guy I admired a woman with a larger top and a good butt. The large breasts have given way to much smaller and normal ones, but the butt has remained the same and even more beautiful. Really, all I like is a “Natural” woman. Every single woman has more to offer then they realize and it comes out in those who believe in themselves. I think we could all agree Kirsty Allie is a big girl, but a very sexy and desirable woman by many men. Then there are those who would turn their heads. I say too bad for them! The two best women I have ever been with had larger than average butts, bit oh boy were they incredible! Not saying a smaller butt isn’t nice, but that is a personal preference for each and every person whether a man or a woman. Enjoy and feel good about you and what you have to offer and everyone will be much happier. Someone will fall head or heels for what you have. For me all women are beautiful and sexy each and every single one of you have something very special to offer. For me as long as you are natural WAHOOOOOOOoo!

  15. I have a flat bootie but a nice rack…my bf has a bigger bootie than I do. And that should never happen!! LOL Your man having a bigger bootie than you. *smh* But I love my bootie the way it is and so does my bf

  16. It sucks for those of us that don’t have the standard butt and bra size men want. I know that I don’t have either so where does that put me on the attractive scale? Not that I truely care because whether i have a big butt or nice boobs someone will love me for me not whats on my body

  17. Hey I’m married, have a 2 year old daughter, and my wife has brains and a nice butt. Life is good 🙂 There’s nothing wrong with a smaller butt, however I believe the attraction of a larger butt can be traced back “many” years. Has to do with reproductive health. Guys instinctively spot it. Big butt and big breasts are a double-whammy…and then BRAINS?? Yeah baby… 🙂

  18. Would you ladies chill out.why is an issue for a man to express himself.I know that every woman including myself had said this before”why don’t you talk to me” Ok so the men are starting to open up.If you don’t care what men like lookin at thats on you, maybe even though you say you don’t your probably headed to the gym right now.And besides the gym isn’t about being skiny it’s about health.Jake said take care of yourself not go get lipo.come on ladies we are more intelligent then this.Stop being so damn sensitive and be who you are.

  19. As a good ol' black Canadian lad,60,with boyish good looks,a muscular build-I'm 5'9",200 lb.,with 18-inch biceps-who's said to resemble a handsome black cowboy stud in and out of my Wranglers jeans and other casual and/or Western wear-OF COURSE,I STRONGLY prefer a buxom blonde or Latina between 25 and 40-but
    I go slobbery and boy-eyed over EVERY big boob black babe I see!!!!!!!!!

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