False Advertising

False Advertising The importance of truth in online dating By: Diane Sweeney Zigzagging through the crowded mall, I slowly make my way toward the movie theatre. In about two minutes, I’ll meet Tony. I’m nervous. Usually, I don’t respond to Internet ads where the man is shirtless and flexing his muscles or writes “I am [...]

False Advertising

The importance of truth in online dating

By: Diane Sweeney

Zigzagging through the crowded mall, I slowly make my way toward the movie theatre. In about two minutes, I’ll meet Tony. I’m nervous. Usually, I don’t respond to Internet ads where the man is shirtless and flexing his muscles or writes “I am very athletic, and you should be, too.” But this time I did.

I can hold my own at the gym, but I also can hold my own chocolate bar, which I tend to do more than dumbbells. I’m not obsessed with my weight, and I could probably stand to lose a few pounds. However, I thought, “What the heck? I’m going to write to Tony.”

After a few phone calls, we decided to meet for a matinee. I arrived early so I could be there waiting for him. My hands began to sweat. Maybe this wasn’t a good idea. Maybe I won’t be his type. Maybe I won’t be athletic or thin enough for him. Maybe I shouldn’t write to men who are better looking than me.

I wiped my sweaty hands on a napkin and tried to shake all the self-doubt from my mind reminding myself that I’m a confident, outgoing woman.

Just then I heard a man say “Dianne?”

Nervously, I lifted my head expecting to see the incredibly handsome, muscular man from the picture, but instead I see someone totally different standing before me.

“Tony?” I ask, confused.

“Yeah, of course. How are you?”

“Fine. Wow, you look really different in person.”

“Oh well, I don’t like taking pictures of myself so some of them are a little older.”

“Really? How old?”

“Seven or eight years,” he says as he grabs the middle of his stomach. “As you can see, I need to get back to working out more. I’ve gained about 25 pounds.”

“Or take newer pictures,” I suggest. “Come on, the movie is about to start. I think I want some popcorn, do you want to share some?” I ask.

“Sure,” he says enthusiastically.

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