ASK REAL GUYS
Female Body Fixation
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: Do all men check out women on TV or on the street? Also, why do men like porn?
Avery: Most men can appreciate the beauty of another woman, just as a woman can appreciate the handsomeness of another man. Looking at members of the opposite sex is normal behavior. Leering or making inappropriate comments about others, though, is not – especially if it makes the person who you are with uncomfortable. Some men like porn, and some women like porn. Some men likely enjoy porn because they are able to watch fantasies that they have, performed by others. Some men may also use porn as a way to enhance their own relationships with their girlfriend, wives etc. Remember, though, that there is a HUGE difference between commercially available adult porn and illegal porn. A total fixation on any type of porn may be indicative of someone with some serious sexual issues and / or problems.